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Pieces of you

Hostility, bitterness, frustration. There are people that just rub you all the wrong way. You can’t stand their behavior or personality. You don’t believe in their beliefs, their point of view, their opinion. You can’t stand how they live their lives or the things they do……. But the fact is you feel the way you do because deep down you see pieces of you in them.

You're jealous, you’re insecure, you envy their life or their ability to live the way they want? You wished you could let loose and be happy being you. You judge their style, their religion, sexuality and career choices. Something about them is threatening to you. You feel like they may hinder how you live your life. Their actions may prevent your actions. Etc….

Do you get uncomfortable around religious people, it maybe because you feel God has turn his back on you so you’re turning your back on him.

Do you hate fake people? Ones that are all dolled up all the time, fake hair, fake nails, fake boobs, fake skin, maybe you hate them because you’re insecure with your own looks and wished you got some of the attention they receive.

Are you hostile towards gay people, maybe their rainbows and pride just remind you how unhappy you are in your relationship.

Is there bitterness towards your rich boss. Do you wish you had what he does. Must be nice to have people work for you while you just collect the checks. What’s stopping you from living the life you want, it’s definitely not him.

Next time you’re quick to judge someone or feel some sort of way about how someone else is living their life, ask yourself why? Why are you getting your panties in a wad, what are you lacking, where are the pieces of you in the mix. Try to figure out what’s triggering your negative reaction to them. Facing the things you hate or the things that make you uncomfortable maybe exactly what you need to open your eyes and shine light in areas of your life to help you live your most authentic life. We are all different and yet the same. Have empathy and compassion. Worry about yourself and let others worry about them self. You never know what others are going through. Live and let live. We are all just trying to live our best life. If your mind and heart are full of garbage, full of negativity, jealousy, envy, bitterness and hate, how can you ever open up and receive love, respect, happiness, sunshine? You can’t, it’s time to take out the garbage. Free up some room and allow pieces of you to heal and prosper.

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